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Great Meeting You...
I'm Parent & Teacher Coach,
Dr. David Palmer

Are you feeling overwhelmed and unsupported in raising or teaching neurodivergent kids who need to grow in regulation and resilience skills?

Dr. David Palmer Headshot

YOU'RE NOT ALONE!

 

As a parent or teacher of neurodivergent kids and teens, you face unique challenges every day. I Get IT! My family's personal journey with neurodivergence and 30-years of experience inspired me to become a dedicated coach/consultant/speaker, , empowering families and classrooms like yours to

find calm, connection, and confidence.

Looking for some QUICK WINS as you eagerly seek to transform your home or classroom?

Emotional Dysregulation CheatSheet Support

Well...Here you go!

If you're a parent or teacher feeling frustrated, confused, or exhausted and unsure of what to do right now...

Download this 6-step CHEATSHEET and get clear, actionable strategies to help neurodivergent children regulate their emotions, empowering YOU to respond calmly and confidently while fostering emotional growth and resilience.

Start Your Journey: Download the Free Guide

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Your Journey to a Thriving Home and Classroom Starts Here!

Happy family together regulated

​​​Imagine a home where battles and meltdowns are less frequent, communication flows more easily, and you feel empowered to support your child's unique brilliance.

 

Envision all students in your classroom engaged in learning experiences and growing academically, emotionally, and socially.

 

My coaching program will equip you with the practical and research-backed tools and strategies to transform your family and classroom dynamic, creating a thriving life for everyone.

My Parent and Teacher Coaching Approach

Thriving and resilient family

My coaching is grounded in my personal experience and professional expertise. Using my Palmer Thriving Resilience Treehouse Coaching Blueprint, we'll work together to:

  • Understand ADHD's impact on your family and students

  • Discover and celebrate children's unique strengths

  • Develop personalized strategies to reduce conflict and chaos and improve communication with compassion

  • Build stronger family/classroom connections and create a more supportive and inclusive environment

What Others Are Saying

Teacher group coaching

It has been a privilege to work with Dr. Palmer! His insights and guidance were a tremendous help... You’ve helped our family in more ways than can be expressed!"

   

   - James and Melissa H.

Dr. Palmer's teaching and coaching is incredibly helpful. We have begun using his strength-based strategies, and we already see a positive difference with our daughter. The focus on celebrating her abilities and creating a supportive environment has made a real impact and I highly recommend this to any parent looking to enhance their parenting skills. 

    - Scott and Dawn O.

Dr. Palmer’s strength-based strategies have had a profound impact on my teaching practice, enhancing my ability to support all students effectively. The insights I gained during our collaboration transformed my approach to education. His guidance has fostered an inclusive environment for all learners. I am deeply grateful for the positive change he has helped create in our classroom.

    - Jennifer R., 2nd Grade Teacher

About Dr. David

Dr. Palmer at NAMI Convention 2024

​​​​​I'm Dr. David, a parent of five amazing neurodivergent teens and a special education teacher and leader. My personal journey, combined with my doctoral degree in education and certifications in trauma-informed practice and ADHD education, fuels my passion for empowering parents and teachers like you.

 

I've spent 30 years as a teacher, educational leader, and counselor, and I'm dedicated to helping you create the thriving family and classroom you desire and deserve.​​​​​​​​​

My journey into parent and teacher coaching/consulting began at home amidst the beautiful chaos of raising five ADHD+ exceptionally wired teens alongside my incredible wife. I vividly remember the early days – the whirlwind of emotions, the countless doctor and therapy appointments, and the constant search for strategies that actually worked. There were tears, frustrations, and a deep yearning for a different way.

Over time, amidst the homework struggles, sensory meltdowns, and the juggling act of busy schedules, I realized something profound. Focusing solely on the challenges wasn't serving us. We needed to shift our perspective and recognize the incredible strengths and resilience within our family.

Dr. David Palmer first year teacher

My First Year Teaching, 1995

​The same rang true in my high school science classes and as a K-12 LEarning Needs Specialist at a large private school. Starting out in education, I blamed students and parents for poor academic performance instead of examining my beliefs and approaches to education. When the connection between my experience at home began to transform my classroom, I worked hard to ensure all students were given the opportunity to succeed by considering their strengths and struggles. I quickly became a sought-after coach with teachers and administrators, setting me up for further success at The Inclusion Matters Collective. ​​

 

Through it all, I've discovered the power of strengths-based, neurodivergent-affirming coaching. Through extensive research and professional development, including earning my doctorate in education and certifications in trauma-informed practice and ADHD education, I developed the Thriving Resilience Treehouse Model and my six-step coaching blueprint. These frameworks are the foundation of my work, guiding families and classrooms like yours toward creating a space filled with understanding, empathy, trust, and genuine connection.

Dr. Palmer's been featured with the following...

The Child Psych Podcast

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